Macken Cheese

"Mom, I love Mac N Cheese. But I am confused. What is 'Macken' and why does it look so much like pasta noodles?" 

And then I explained, It's Mac AND cheese, meaning Macaroni Noodles. So she says:

"How do you make Macken? Can you buy it at the store?" 




Skyler's Famous Grilled Cheese

(She named this one herself!)

Ingredients:

  1. 2 slices of bread
  2. Butter (for bread)
  3. 2 slices of cheese (we use cheddar)
  4. Turkey (sliced for sandwiches)
Directions:
  1. Heat iron skillet (on medium heat)
  2. Butter both slices of bread
  3. Place first slice of bread, butter side down on skillet
  4. Place first slice of cheese on top.
  5. Place turkey on top of cheese
  6. Place another slice of cheese
  7. Place the last slice of bread, butter side up.
  8. Let cook for awhile - until the bottom of the first slice is golden broan. 
  9. Flip, let cook on the second side until it's golden brown
  10. Slice diagonally (because that's the only way to slice grilled cheese!) 
  11. Enjoy! 

This recipe is 100% Skyler's recipe - and one we make a few times a week! She absolutely loves it! (Although she does NOT eat it with tomato soup, she prefers carrots and ranch for her side with this delicious sandwich!)

Welcome to 2015!!


Welcome to 2015!! (Geez, 2015? How the heck is it already 2015??)

Seeing that it's a new year, it's time for goals. (I don't do resolutions, but I do set goals... less pressure with goals. More long-term thinking.) And one of my goals for this year is to update this blog more. Lots more. So much more that a year from now (January 1, 2016) I can click "ORDER" on a book made from this year's posts - photos included! Something I can keep forever. A journal for this year.

I also want to read books. Lots of them. (I read 215 in 2014!) But I don't have a number goal - instead? I have a reading challenge. A list of topics/ideas/items to check off.


So with those goals in mind? I suppose this post should be a jumping off place. A Who are we? What are we doing? What's going on in our lives? (So we can measure progress, right?) 


I am working on Ali Edwards One Little Word project - At this point? I can't really tell you what all it entails!! The workshop/project was a Christmas Gift from a friend! And I chose my word "Action" because it kept popping up in my life. So 2015 is the #YearOfAction (for those of you following my social media!) 


If I'm not at Skyler's Hockey Practice, or working on school work at home, or leading Girl Scouts? I'm probably at church, in the sound booth. The past year I spent a good chunk of the year learning how to run the sound board, and then the past few months I took over the computer in the booth! 

Honestly? A few years ago I never would have imagined I'd find a church I loved, let alone one I would be wanting to spend all my time at! But I have most definitely found that!! 

I'm still running (and loving) All Things Pueblo - although it's been a bit of a burn out lately! So I'm hoping to jump in feet first and revitalize the site this month! 
Skyler is full of energy - as every six year old should be! She loves to dance (and tonight, she announced that it is her talent, then promptly asked if I would take her video and post it on Facebook. I guess I spend a bit too much time on the computer!)

So here goes 2015!! Hope it's a good one!

Skyler's First Year of Hockey!

Well, it's November and hockey season is well underway!! Skyler is loving it just as much, if not more! And tonight I was looking at videos to see just how far she has come and decided to compile so you can see too!

The Bell Rings Red!!



Tonight Skyler and I went to our first Bell Game (http://bit.ly/1ATBrV4, for the curious) and Centennial (our neighborhood high school) won 28-26 for the fifth year in a row!!

Here are a few highlights!



















Giving Up Facebook

I am on a self-imposed Facebook Ban with no real "end date" in mind.

I find that I am constantly checking the darn site, reading through status updates of people I haven't seen since high school, and honestly have no desire to see in person. I spend hours each week "liking" baby photos and writing status updates - which I need to think carefully about before posting. Will my pastor approve? Will it be too nerdy for my ultra hip friends? What about that guy I had a crush on in 7th grade? Or the girl who I worked with at summer camp 15 years ago? (You know, the one I never really liked anyway?)

So I am spending some time focusing on other things - not having my phone with me constantly (or at least not "needing" to check it.)

I deleted the App from my phone at about 7pm last night. But by 9? I was begging my sister "Hey Kate, check and see if anyone commented on my post about deleting Facebook!" She rolled her eyes and explained that it defeated the purpose, but I begged her again and she checked. Proof that I am positively addicted and need this break!


Fishing!

This past week our church (Fusion Ministry) hosted a "Family Fishing Trip" - Carrie and I decided to take the kids for our own fishing trip and then meet up with the church group after our own adventure!

Five hours at San Isabel (my favorite place in all of Colorado) and three rain storms later? Our whole group caught 1 fish!! (After we left the guys caught 2 more.) 












A Year of Scouts


In September I went to an informational meeting about maybe having Skyler join girl scouts, unfortunately they were so short of troop leaders and had so many girls wanting to join that they told me really the only way was to be a parent volunteer. Reluctantly, I said I would help and they told me that they had a troop leader in my neighborhood who needed someone to help with Daisies and so they passed along my phone number.

I agreed to help lead this troop, and told this strange lady on the phone where I lived - she told me she was just around the corner and she'd stop by a few days later to talk about what I'd need to be doing.

I was a bit shocked when my favorite cashier at Albertsons showed up at my house that day with a boatload of girl scout stuff in her arms.


Over the past 9 months this awesome lady has welcomed Skyler and I not only into her girl scout troop, but into her living room on more occasions than I can count so we can plan for scouts, or just watch our favorite tv shows! And I know that if I answer the phone to "Hey Jacque, I had an idea..." something crazy, fun and full of hours of work - that may or may not involve a semi truck full of cookies -is coming my way! (I'm just glad it's usually taking place in her garage and not mine!)

While I reluctantly signed up to lead a girl scout troop, I am so glad that this crazy lady and her awesome kiddos came into my life! (And her husband too...)

So as we are getting ready for our bridging/awards ceremony, I am so thankful for the crazy adventure my year of leading Daisies has been and looking forward to the next!

Hockey Star


We have been playing hockey for six months now!! And we are both still loving it!

It is amazing to watch her go from being so timid on the ice to being a fairly competent skater! (She still has a ways to go before she's Olympic quality! But she is doing awesome!


There is only one other girl - but she loves it! She loves coming to the rink two or three times a week, hanging out with the boys and her coaches! 

She begs to skate on days we don't have hockey (we end up going most Mondays anyway! Unfortunately mom isn't improving near as quickly as Skyler!




Skyler - the Hockey Star

Scribber

Last September, hockey mania hit our house in a big way. It started when Skyler’s friend told us about a FREE month of hockey at the local ice arena – FREE? I’m always game! So we signed up, along with her little friend, and spent September at the ice arena.
Skyler had never been on skates before, never really seen hockey at all! But it was love at first skate! She really loved skating, loved her coaches and just had a great time in general – so of course, time to sign up for regular season, we were on board! 
hockey player
Now after spending two or three days a week at hockey practice, Skyler is still loving the sport! But we’ve got one problem. Stick control.
Playing hockey one handed is tough! (As if learning to skate and control that stick that’s as big as you are isn’t enough?) Grasping the stick is tough (getting her glove to stay on is tough!) so last week as I watched her struggle during one of the drills, I decided to try and figure something out on my own.
I spent time watching YouTube videos of one-handed hockey players (links below!) and none of them really had a hand problem like her’s – they all had differentThen it hit me – a hanger!
I broke off the end of an old clothes hanger and taped it to her glove. (Lots of tape – she tends to be a bit abusive to the gloves – proof she’s meant to play hockey!) The hope is that she will use the hanger to hook her stick so she can push and pull – she plays more like a lefty, holding the stick with her right hand up high anyway.
I suppose time will tell, and after practice tonight? I’ll know better if this new invention works or not! It may be back to the drawing board, but either way? It’s fun to try!
taped up glove
Some awesome One-Handed hockey inspiration!
Maisie Reynolds from New Mexico – Skyler has had a lot of fun watching this video over and over! This girl has a hand fairly similar to her, and she plays hockey! Super Awesome!
A more local front - Scott Stafford is a one armed hockey player in the Denver area!
one handed hockey player

The Advent Begins!



We started the Advent 2013 season by making a "Countdown to Christmas" chain!  (And a few visits from Chip-Chip!)








(She wrote Santa a letter that said "Dear Santa, Chip-Chip has been silly" and he responded!)


We've been a bit busy!!

Today was our first ever Co-Op day with the local Homeschool Co-Op!! Skyler spent the morning with the Kindergartners/1st Graders! They had music class (which I got to help with!) then they went to P.E. (I stayed in Music for the morning) and then to Arts and Crafts!! She really loved it, and had four friends that she already knew in her group! (Not to mention lots of new friends!!)

On top of that, she's been playing hockey! Which is once a week - and mostly just Ice Skating Lessons at this point - but none the less? It's fun!

But let's get to the REAL point of this post! Skyler has been BEGGING to make a video - so I'm sharing her new video with you :)




 

Exciting New Opportunities

All Things Pueblo
I know this is more of my personal blog - but I wanted to take a few quick moments to write about a new opportunity I've recently taken on!

My good friend Andrea started a website, All Things Pueblo, back in March and she recently asked me to come on board and help with finding and posting events as well as graphics!

Couch to Fourteener

*They say if you tell someone your goals, you're more likely to complete them. (I'm sure there's a statistic out there, and you know I love nothing more to be a statistic!) So here you go - I'm telling a whole bunch of someone's my goal! I copied this from my other blog, where I try to avoid sharing our families names - because it's public, unlike this where only a few people have the link!*
Couch to 14er
Ok beloved readers, please stick with me through this one! It will get cheesy in places, I promise you that! But hear me out!
IMG_4317In July I had the chance of a lifetime, my father in law took us (The Trucker, Scribber and Myself) to Alaska for a weeklong adventure! For one leg of our trip, we stayed at a lodge deep in the heart of Denali National Park. It was this absolutely amazing, breathtaking place. No matter where you looked, you felt just in awe of the beauty.

One of the activities that the lodge offered was guided hikes, and since we'd heard there was a good view of Denali that day (which apparently is incredibly rare) The Trucker had his parents watch Scribber and he and I headed out to join the afternoon hike.

Now - let me set the scene for you. The Trucker and I wait at the main lodge for our guide, where we are joined by our group. There is a family, 4 kids and the parents. They all look to be in incredible shape, all athletic. There's also a couple from India - while they aren't as physically fit as the other family? They still appear in FAR better shape than the Trucker and I are.

Then our guide shows up - he asks if everyone has water (check) and no one is wearing flip-flops (again, check) then he takes one look at my shoes - worn out New Balance Running Shoes, that probably should have been thrown out AGES ago. He grabs a hiking pole and tosses it at me, tells me I'll need it.
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We load up the Lodge Van, an old 15-passenger beast, which is taking us to the trailhead. Once we load up our guide announces that he'll give us the option of taking the simple hike we were going to take, or the more advanced one, Wickersham Dome, which has an INCREDIBLE view of the mountain. The Fit Family Robinson squeals at the idea of this more advanced hike. While the Trucker is sitting shotgun, rambling away, I am sitting in the middle row realizing that this out of shape, pudgy housewife from the middle of nowhere isn't about to embarrass herself by holding up this families dream vacation. No way. So what am I going to do? Make a fool of myself, and hike this near vertical climb!

Yep. Of course. It's the only logical option right?

Now, I've got to hand it to our guide, Michael, who if for some odd reason you stumble upon my blog? Well, you are an angel, and deserve some fantastic prize, perhaps a lottery win! He could tell when I'd nearly reached my limit and would pop in with some nature spiel, telling us about this fantastic flower we were passing. He would ramble on long enough for me to sort of catch my breath, and off we'd go.
Long story short? We made it (almost) to the top. The Fit Family Robinson was fantastic too, seriously, it's like I brought my own personal cheerleaders all the way to Alaska with me! But more than that, this hike was possibly the pinnacle of my trip. It made me realize that I actually like hiking! Who'd thunk it? (I mean, seriously - I live in Colorado. I can see Pikes Peak from my house. Yet, I had no idea how much I liked hiking!)

Fast forward nearly a month, I'm sitting in church. (Hey, I told you it'd get cheesy!) And it hits me - at least I think it was the idea, I'm pretty sure it wasn't the lightning yet, although thunder did strike soon after. Anyway, I realized, sitting there in my chair, trying to blend in with the background and praying that the people around me couldn't hear my horrendous singing, that I love hiking. I've been trying to think of a way to get in shape, running isn't my thing. I don't really want to pay a gym membership fee. And I don't own a bike (again, I'm cheap!) But, I could hike! I mean, again, I live in Colorado!

So of course, I'm not going to be happy just hiking around the nature center here in town. Nope. No way. I am going to summit a fourteener. And on my way, just because I've proven that I am insane? Why don't I tackle the Manitou Incline too?

So welcome to my journey! I'll be updating here, as I attempt to get in shape, roll down trails and eventually summit a fourteener!
The Trucker and I at Wickersham Dome (July 12, 2013)

Book Review: Raising Respectful Children by Jill Rigby

A few months back I was approached by Howard Books to review  by  I had just finished a bible study on parenting, so I was intrigued and wanted to continue this subject!

Jill Rigby has some wonderful points. For example, her comparison between Parent-Centered, Child-Centered and Character-Centered parenting. This is something that I find difficult to keep seperate, and find myself jumping into many different facets of each style. In Parent-Centered, the parent is concerned with molding the child  into what they want them to be, in giving them the attributes (publicly) that they want. In Child-Centered, they are giving the child what THEY want. (I have a good friend who is strongly Child-Centered in her parenting, and it's very interesting to see the negative effects of this, especially after having read this book.) Then there is Character-Centered, which seems the obvious answer. Teaching your child to have good character, both privately and publicly. Doing what is right, versus what seems fun, or ideal at the time.

One that really resonated with me was her advice to "Cut out the Maybe" in your answers, and thus saving yourself a day (or even week) long battle. If your answer is yes, say yes. If it is no, say no. You often know in the moment your child asks which way you are going to sway, so save yourself the battle. This is something I am horribly guilty of!

That said? There was plenty I did not believe with her on, as is typically the case with these types of books. (I like to think I have a unique parenting style, and I try to base my decisions on what is best for my child specifically.) But she brings up the Harry Potter series as well, and one of my biggest pet peeves is bringing up that book in Parenting. Why? Because it's a fictional book. FICTION. Make Believe. Not Real. And I am a huge advocate for teaching my child the different between real and pretend - and thus? I strongly feel that the mention of such pretend, made up, fictional literature has no place in a parenting book. (I see that word and I shut down - much the same for many other Hollywood references.) Besides, I'm a book-nerd who has a very special place in my heart for Harry Potter and other like books! (Witches, Wizards, Vampires and Warewolfs are such a fun escape from day-to-day life where my neighbor is just your average annoying old man, and I'm busy running six different directions as I lead up a local moms group, and several activities at church. It's just fun to escape into those things, and I hate the idea of even pretending to deny my daughter that magical escape as well!)

She also talks about the difference between Self-Respect and Self-Esteem. Which to me, was a bit narcissistic. It felt like she was pushing for one or the other, while I see huge benefits to having BOTH in your daily life. Self-Esteem is important, especially in this day of bullying. However, Self-Respect is also important, and I think there needs to be a balance between the two, where the author was encouraging Self-Esteem over Self-Respect.


In the end? I enjoyed Raising Respectful Children, but I'm not sure I would recommend it for everyone. You'd have to be one of two people: Those who blindly follow, or those who read everything with a very subjective eye, and are not easily offended or swayed but open to reflecting on your parenting styles anyway. I found some helpful tips, and was able to re-revaluate a few of my weaker spots in parenting. But overall? Much of her advice just wasn't for my family.


Even Mosquitoes??

 For Christmas Scribber got this awesome "Noah's Ark" Stained Glass kit from Melissa and Doug. (While I ADORE the Melissa and Doug line, the age on this kit was 6+ - an age that I thought was pretty accurate. There's a ton of SMALL pieces to be stuck to the "glass" and little fingers aren't the best at that kind of thing! So, I did what any sane mother would do... I hid it! 

Well, today she found it and begged and pleaded to do it. So, I gave in.

I was right, the small pieces were tough for her clumsy fingers!

But? It was an hour well spent - we had a blast. We talked about favorite animals (she really likes Bears - I think our recent trip to Alaska where we got to watch a Mama and her two cubs play may have had a hand in that answer! Where I'm more partial to cats, and Okapi's!) We talked about rain, which we both agreed would be fun to dance in! And we also came to the consensus that we don't get near enough of it here in Southern Colorado!

But we also talked a bit about the story of Noah's Ark. Sure, she's heard it before - in Sunday School and Awana's at church. And probably in a Veggie Tales episode. But we'd never really had a conversation - just she and I about it.

She got very serious, stopped what she was doing and looked at me.

"Mom, I wish Noah hadn't taken two mosquitoes. Then I wouldn't have gotten so many bites in Alaska. Or maybe he could've made a mistake. Maybe he should have taken two boys."

Man, I love this kid!!

(And I agree - he should have left the Mosquitoes off the Ark!!)